Have No Fear

“You had great shots. Just relax,” I told my son as he came out from one of the courts where they went against another school yesterday.

“I don’t know what it is, mom. I’m not sure if I’m a little nervous or what. I can’t focus,” he replied.

“It’s okay to be nervous. But being afraid is not. You are doing well but because of that feeling, it’s making you lose points. I know you’re always trying your best. That’s what matters,” I reassured him.

He was trying to avoid the previous wrong moves he did from the last game. Trying to place the ball on the other side where the opponent would have a hard time hitting it back. He succeeded with some, others, he failed. Rushing at times, the ball would hit the net.

The coach stood next to me and whispered, “I don’t know what it is with him. When he’s playing, it’s like he gets nervous or something. But during training and drills, he does so well.”

“He knows it coach,” I uttered. “He just needs to learn to relax and practice those hard moves that he needs to learn.”

“Good job!” I told him, as he opened the gate of the court where he played. He managed to smile at me despite just losing some valuable points. He went to the coach and I saw him had a good talk with my son. A few taps on his shoulder and my son came back to me.

“Don’t worry about it, Kristian,” as I smiled at him and gave him a middle “5”.

“Well, coach told me that he still would want me to play in the coming match on Thursday,” he said.

“Good. Because he sees that potential in you Kristian. Just relax. It’s okay whether you win or lose,” I added.

“Thanks, mom. I love you,” he whispered.

Are the balls hitting right in front of you? And you can’t seem to manage to hit the balls back and make a score? Are you nervous or are you afraid? Being nervous is okay. But the force that comes with it differs. Either it drives you to do your best and hit those winning moves. Or it paralyzes you with fear that you’re too afraid to move, too afraid to make mistakes.

Paul reminded Timothy that we have a spiritual enemy that does not want us to use our spiritual gifts for God. And he will try his best to stop you from using those gifts to use for His Kingdom. Satan doesn’t want us talking about Jesus. He doesn’t want us serving Jesus by telling others about Him. But do not be afraid! Fear is a spirit but you certainly can overcome it!

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.” -2 Timothy 1:7

It’s knowing God that will empower us. Proverbs 11:9 says, “Through knowledge the righteous will be delivered.” The more we receive God’s love, the lesser the hold of spirit of fear will have on us. “Perfect love casts out fear.” - 1John 4:18

I learn a lot watching my son’s tennis games. Knowing how every game is the same as the life I play. I know the trials pressure that comes. I know the team's God's expectations. I always remind my son. That in tennis, he will surely fare better if he focuses on having fun and improving his game, not on focusing to win. Winning is only a part of improving. But in the matches played in tennis and life, it is about staying happy even on losing those matches that matters. Knowing that we played well against a better opponent than winning a match in which we played poorly. It is learning how to be patient in every game. Freedom from fear comes from having faith. Because you can't have fear and faith at the same time.

In the matches of life, we must not live in fear but be conscious instead that God is within us, around us and over us. We need to remember that God Who is in us is greater than the spiritual enemy. And if God has already overcome the world, having Him in us, then, we surely are victorious because of Him. So, don’t bow down to fear. Live in victory!

“The Lord is my light and my salvation - whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life - of whom shall I be afraid?” ~ Psalm 27:1


  1. I read this right after submitting my resume to a company and then thinking, "I hope they don't call me" and feeling a spirit of fear. I know this is God's reminder that He will be with me wherever I go and I have nothing to be afraid of.

    Thank you Rosel and I hope your day is incredibly blessed!

  2. This was really good Rosel and a timely one for me. Thanks for posting this. Blessings and hugs, Debbie

  3. Great lessons of life. Have a beautiful day, sister Rosel!

  4. Rosel, this was a very good post. Appreciate its timing. Blessings.

  5. I'm so grateful that because of God's goodness, because of the Holy Spirit within me, that I do not have to fear. But I do need to remind myself of the truth that there is a spiritual battle ongoing, and I do need to remind myself that I can do all things that are in front of me through Christ in me.

  6. Praying for Kristian...that GOD will calm his heart and use him to his fullest potential. Praying Kristian will recognize how sweet the peace of GOD is and cast the ugly fear to the side confidently, knowing GOD always has his back!

    Blessings, hugs, and prayers,

    PS: Great post! I learn and grow with you each time I come here!

  7. The battle is excruciatingly tough. The enemy is relentless and feirce, thank God greater is he that is in me than he that is in the world. Good post and good reminder all of our confidence must be in Christ.

  8. Wow, the message and then the video on top of that really packed a wallop! Getting stirred up here, girl...

  9. Thanks for this wonderful message. I love you.

  10. What a timely, powerful post, Rosel. Can we ever hear it enough? We've been equipped to walk confidently, yet too often we (I) shrink with doubt, or nerves, or outright terror.

    May we, His own, grip The Hand ready to lead us boldly where no man has gone before (I stopped short of saying "in a single bound!")


  11. train a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not turn from it! Prov 22:6

    What a glorious godly examply you are of this Scripture Rosel!

    Praying for your son

    Love you Rosel

  12. What an inspirational video - and post! BTW - your son's name is one of my 5 favorite boys names?)

    One of my sons went through a fear phase where I had to tell him to "Slay that Monster Fear" (be sure to read/say that really dramatically) or that monster grows and grows and grows.

    Feeling fear is probably part of our human nature - it's what we do with that fear that makes us Children of God! Learning to replace that fear with Trust and Faith in God - a tough lesson for both children and grown-ups, but an oh so necessary lesson!

    What a fearless post!

  13. I Love our Lord so much. I see Him shine through you each posting. I am so thankful that you listen to Him, remember His words and take them to heart. I know those words will mold your child, just as your words have molded me. Much love to you Rosel. Cherie

  14. I loved this RCubes! You are right, there is a big difference between fear and desire to do better. Sounds like you and your son have a great relationship. Great post! :)

  15. I love the way you are with your son...your love and support for him is awesome. Fear - I've spent most of my life in fear...it's horrible...crippling and keeps you from living your best life. Great post. Stay strong and safe out there. ☺

  16. You are such a blessing to your son. What a great Mom. Isn't is wonderful how God teaches us lessons in everyday life?

    Love you,


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