12 years ago, in my son’s Kindergarten class, the teacher had them write something about their moms in sort of “fill-in-the blanks” styles. I was sure that must be challenging for their young minds or imaginations.
One question out of about 5 fill-in-the blanks struck me the most:
My mom__________. (My son’s reply: “knows everything.”)
As we both recalled that time as we happened to take a tour back to those old paths by looking at the pictures I had kept all those years, I asked him what he thought about that now.
Oh, he was quick to give me a reply with a 17-year old wisdom:
“That isn’t true, Mom!” As he gave me a hug and a kiss as if to counter any potential harm to this mother’s heart.
I hugged him tight and I said, “That’s right! Only God knows everything!”
“I know,” he replied with a big smile, perhaps with a sense of relief that his “mama” didn’t get emotional!
As time goes by fast, year after year, I often reflect on those memories I share with my child. As a mother, I want to be better, help him in any possible ways with the hope and prayers that he will always walk in that right path. The narrow path that isn’t easy but leads to the eternal.
As mothers, we are a part of our children’s journeys. We have a part in their history even when that time comes that they have to create their own.
So, as my last words at that time when I was talking with my son, I added:
"Your mom may not know everything but by God's grace, He tells me a lot so I end up knowing a lot!"
He nodded his head in quick agreement.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you, friends and sisters in Christ! (And I’m not only talking about those who have children. I know many also who never have children but have a loving heart like that of a mother’s)…May God’s wisdom and discernment continue to guide us as mothers to our children, and not only to them but to others as well. For this journey is not easy. But with God’s help, we can always make it! We can endure.
What will your child say about you as a mother?