Friend of God

“What? You think you can beat me up? Try me! Just try me! Mother______!!!”

He was new to the unit. Aware of the power he had. Despite being shorter than the man whose face, he purposely put in front of his own, merely an inch away, he just wanted to prove that he was much stronger.

“You think you can outdo me, huh?” the bragging voice continued, as he flexed his well-sculpted muscles on his arms. He spread his legs to get a better stance.

“You come here thinking you can still do what you want!!! Give me a break! This is my house, not yours! Welcome to my house!” shrieked the loud, deep voice.

The other man kept silent. His eyes opened wide, staring at the yeller eye to eye. He didn’t want to say anything, to avoid provoking the other man to hit him. Or perhaps, him even adding any offense to his previous charges.

Then suddenly....One…Two…Three…lots of punches and kicks came hard on the yeller. The tall shadow had enough hearing his bragging and perhaps, abuse of power. The man’s cellie [inmate who stay with another in the same cell] emerged from the inmate’s back and came lounging at the young, newly-hired deputy.

The call for help blared loud over the radio traffic. “Officer down!” was what lingered. Pairs of what seemed to be thousands of steps from other officers hurried to save the downed deputy. But it was too late. He was laying on the cold, cement floor, bloodied and unconscious.

The inmate who hit the deputy felt proud of what he did, proud of the fact that he was able to help his “cellie”, the man he considered as his new friend he met in that small, square cell. He was not afraid of what would happen to his case. He just wanted to let that deputy know that they couldn’t be treated that way and that, if a friend was in need, he was there! He wanted to prove that his friendship, despite them being inmates, could be loyal.

Finding true friendships are rare in this world. How do we recognize someone’s potential to become our friend? We often go by the same likes, dislikes, interests, passion, etc.

But a true friendship takes time to develop. It takes time to share special memories and investing time with each other’s growth. Trust is a necessary factor to make it a long-lasting relationship. Along with trust, comes faithfulness and reliability. Genuine friendship is all about sticking with each other in any kind of weather. Real friendship is about the readiness to forgive despite the hurt caused by the other, having unconditional love for each other and being dependable when crisis arise.

God told us that “a friend sticks closer than a brother.” It’s not about finding friends…It’s about becoming one.

Are you in need of a friend? God desires us to be His friend. And as we tend to know Him and have a trusting relationship, He wants us to befriend others.

This world is in deep need of acceptance, friendship, and love. We are to be God’s representatives to make others know about His faithful and unconditional love, for His gift of forgiveness, and His awesome friendship!

Don’t you worry, whatever prideful things this world shows in your face, God is always with us to protect us and never to forsake us at times of danger and needs. Are you a friend of God?


  1. As always Rosel, I love your posts! I don't know where I'd be today without my heart-friends! I especially wouldn't be who I am today without Jesus.

    On another note, your comment about the ice cream made me laugh. Ha. I just worked out and my thighs were not happy with me. Especially my left hamstring. Oh well, at least I MADE myself do it (even if I forwarded through part of the DVD). :o)

  2. Yes, I am a friend of God - and I am thank Him everyday. Great post.

    Love to you

  3. Rosel,

    It was if I was sitting at our church listening to a sermon! Thanks for sharing that story and thanks for being such a great prayer warrior, but most of all a friend.

    Great Post!


  4. Amen Rosel!!!! God is the BEST friend we could have. Some times I think we set Him aside for other friends who could never be the kind of friend that He can be!!! Why do we do that????

  5. Oh Rosel, how beautiful and precious this post. When all else fails us we have our Lord who never fails us. HE truly is our BEST FRIEND!
    Love you, andrea

  6. Another incredible post. The things you experience in your line of work just blow my mind. Yet you continue to find a way to use the worst of it to minister to us. THANK YOU.

    (And yes, I am a friend of God, too! Love that song!)

  7. Rosel... I am a friend of God. Thank You again for sharing your deep love of God and allowing us to read your amazing writing. You are a friend and blessing to me. Audrey

  8. Thanks for that encouraging post, Dear. Thank God He has called us His friend. The song was great. Blessings ~

  9. Friend is my favorte name of Jesus. I was just thinking today of how He sticks closer than a brother.

    I loved your bannana muffins.


  10. I always love checking in with you. Your stories are those in the trenches, and yet that is where God has placed you to be a light. Shine on friend!


  11. Thank you for sharing this. It has blessed me. You are so right ... God is our friend, always there for us. I love the title picture on your blog. It's beautiful.

  12. Such a lovely post. I praise God for being my friend, such a comfort to my heart.

  13. I seriously doubt we could, with certainty and joy, call Him "Abba" were we not to have the certainty of His friendship, His utterly marvelous purposes for us.

    Lovely thoughts!


  14. Beautiful post! He is our only one true friend. Thank you for sharing.

    Enjoy the weekend.

  15. I'm so grateful that God chooses to be my friend. I know I've done nothing to deserve Him.

    Thank you for the encouragement to be a forgiving friend; I needed that today.

    It's off your main topic but I can't resist commenting that it grieves me when people like this deputy, in ignorance (best case scenario), abuse their power as he did.

  16. I love that song "Friend of God" Today as I was thinking about a post for my own blog I pondered being a friend of God , which is different than God being a Friend of ours. It takes an investment of time and a habit of being available on our end before the friendship really begins to bloom. But when it does nothing compares to it!


"Faith is taking the first step even if you don't see the whole staircase..."
~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

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The Attacker (5/15/09)

The sun was just peeking from the Eastern skies. Ephesians 6:12 [37 kb]

Out in the prison’s yard, some huge Sheriff’s buses were illuminated by the soft glow coming from the lights all over from the tall lamp posts. Their engines were turned on, warming up, before the buses would take the inmates to the different courts where they would have their trials.

Orange-uniformed men were lined up in pairs, joined together with handcuffs and chained, forming a long line. They already had their breakfast and had their morning medications prior to going to courts. Some were fidgeting, as they waited to board those buses.

All of a sudden, all hell broke loose! Two men were engaged in a fight, using weapons they made secretly for a while. Deputies called for help on the radio, both for custody back-up and medical staff, as well.

When the air was cleared and the other inmates were secured, one man was down on the floor. He sustained multiple gashes but two of them were deep. One cut was vertically etched from his left ear going down to the jaw line. The other dangerous cut was horizontal on his left neck, close to the jugular vein. Pool of blood dripped all over the floor. Holding his bleeding neck, he was pointing at the other inmate few feet away, being guarded by the other deputies.

The other man being accused was not hurt. There were no lacerations nor any other signs of trauma. He was obviously very agitated as he was being questioned by those deputies, while the medical staff started treating the other man on the floor. They cleaned the wounds and controlled the bleeding. That man was sent to the nearby hospital.

When the investigation was finalized, it turned out to be that the “downed man who was accusing the other inmate” was the attacker and the other one who didn’t have injury was the one attacked. The deputies found out that it was the second attempt to attack the unhurt man. Both attacks on him failed. He was well-prepared after the first attempt on him, that when the second attempt was done, he was able to defend himseld and ended up injuring his attacker severely.

[Source: Life Application Bible]:

We also have an “accuser of the brethren.” Satan and his army of demons are the enemies of God and of everything good.

“Because God’s children are human beings – made of flesh and blood – Jesus also became flesh and blood by being born in human form. For only as a human being could he die, and only by dying could he break the power of the Devil, who had the power of death.” –Hebrews 2:14

Because of what Jesus had done [dying on the cross], we, who live in constant fear of death shouldn’t be afraid anymore. Jesus had freed us from that fear so we can live for Him. When we belong to God, we know that death is only the portal that leads into “eternal life”. [“Thank You Lord!].

Paul warned us, too that we also battle against the evil forces of Satan, who is a vicious fighter. But to be able to withstand their attacks, we must depend on God’s strength and use every piece of His armor. We face an army whose goal is to defeat Christ’s church. When we believe in Christ, they become our enemies. They will try any device to turn us away from the Lord.

Fear not! For God has provided His supernatural power to defeat Satan and his army, through His Holy Spirit within us. So, arm yourselves with God’s armor.

Let us be strong in the Lord's mighty power. Let's put on His whole armor to resist the enemy's attacks: put on the sturdy belt of truth and the body armor of God's righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News, so that we are well-prepared. We will need faith in every battle as our shield to stop the fiery arrows aimed by Satan and his army. Let us put on salvation as our helmet, not forgetting the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God. Let's pray at all times, on every occasion in the power of the Holy Spirit. We must stay alert and be persistent in our prayers for all Christians everywhere. [Ephesians 6:10-18].