Silence That Destroys

“I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— one Lord, one faith, one baptism, ...”
- Ephesians 4:1-6 [ESV]

I worked on New Year’s Eve, surprised that there were three of us assigned that night in the Clinic. With the constant shortage of staff, that was a nice night to be staffed well. Though on a holiday, we usually did not anticipate that it would be busy. True enough, the night was calm. We got done entering the doctor’s orders in the computer in a short amount of time. Then….Silence… Except me, in a joyful mood, chatting with each of them. In between those two nurses, silence…

I had brought some coffee cake for my co-workers to enjoy. Seeing the Intake Nurse walked in, I hollered to offer her a piece and was going to greet her a Happy New Year. But she was walking so fast, almost running kind of strides to head back to the Intake after getting her much needed supplies. She didn’t hear me or she pretended she didn’t. But it didn’t hurt me. I was just wondering what was going on.

Much later, another co-worker told me that the acting charge nurse was not talking with the other nurse working with me and her. Something happened between them. And so it was between her and the Intake Nurse. That was why she was rushing to get out of the Infirmary.

Nursing pride in their hearts… Not willing to forgive. Not willing to yield. Not willing to cooperate. Not willing to compromise. That was the problem. No one wanted to go lower and respect another’s opinion until they had invisibly created a big wall in between them. They started warring with each other.

The silence enveloped me until I found myself quiet, too. The words I wanted to utter stayed in my mind. I felt sadness seeing this state of work habits amongst us. I sensed immense sadness to know how much time was being wasted having these kinds of attitudes amongst ourselves. Please pray for correctional nurses at my work. And for me!

No one can drive us crazy unless we give them the keys. ~Doug Horton

We are at war as believers of the Lord Jesus Christ. And what a waste if we are divided instead of united. We are His body and what a shame that we are allowing to have the spiritual enemies to have a gain by using our differences to divide us. We must be united. We must be one. We must not be at war amongst ourselves but with our spiritual enemies. Silence can be beneficial or not. Being quiet when we should talk may create disunity. But silence, in perfect timing, will help connect and build bridges instead of creating walls.

“Complete my joy by being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.” – Philippians 2:2 [ESV]

“Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel.” – Philippians 1:27 [ESV]

“I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment.”
– 1 Corinthians 1:10 [ESV]

“Finally, brothers, rejoice. Aim for restoration, comfort one another, agree with one another, live in peace; and the God of love and peace will be with you.” – 2 Corinthians 13:11 [ESV]


“Do two walk together, unless they have agreed to meet?” – Amos 3:3 [ESV]

11 comments:

  1. Work strife can cause so much anxiety. The silence can seem deadly. Remembering you in prayer sister.

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  2. Great post! A Blessed New Year my friend.
    Sending you love and prayers.
    He knows better and He is preparing us for a greater glory.
    My daughter was severely injured last Sept. 2010. It was a miracle that she is alive.
    We are still coping up with what happened. We trust the Lord for He know best!
    xo

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  3. Rosel, love the song Your Faithfulness playing in the background. Being at war with one another is not good. I hated to have the silent treatment done to me. That is the worst kind of punishment. Blessings to you.

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  4. Sweet Sister,

    Being in the work place for almost 30 years I understand and I pray for you and all of the correctional nurses that you are associated with at your work place...that unity and harmony will prevail at all times as your light continues to shine in such a dark place. You are such a "Beautiful Blessing" to all there and...ALL HERE...I love you.

    "Silence can be beneficial or not. Being quiet when we should talk may create disunity. But silence, in perfect timing, will help connect and build bridges instead of creating walls."...so very very true.

    My prayers rise up up up for you dear sister...ALWAYS!

    Peace & Hugs,
    Alleluiabelle

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  5. Your stressful environment could possibly make it difficult not to get in disagreements on occasion...the first thing I learned when I became a christian was Lord change me...in all things. Even arguments and it was a blessing. I pray your New year is full of opportunities to continue to serve the Lord in that special way you do. ♥ Dee

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  6. That tenseness of unforgiveness! We are so free in Christ, the deep forgiveness He gave us is a gift for others. This is a good reminder.

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  7. Rosel, I was so happy to see that you stopped by. I have missed you all so much. It feels good to be back. I loved this post. I really loved all of the Scriptures at the end about being one. I really believe that is the main thing that God is revealing to me lately is the unity that He bought and paid for us to walk needs to be realized and lived in with Him at the center. Love it!!!

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  8. Happy New Year Sister and thank you for stopping by. :)

    The workplace is a necessary evil, isn't it? LOL Just another part of the struggle of life on this planet, but one we can enjoy too.

    Have a blessed week and year Sis. Love you.

    Lisa

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  9. Rosel,

    I pray that your work environment will become better. Our God can do all things! Even change the hearts of our fellow employees.

    ~Ron

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  10. It always saddens my heart when people are just too proud to get along. Dr. Phil said somethin' that really spoke to me. Now folks, I'm paraphrasin' here, "Hate the person, poison yourself," Now, if that isn't the truth!!!

    What a wonderful reminder just to love one another.

    God bless ya and have a most marvelous New Year sweetie!!! :o)

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  11. Great quote. I needed to hear it, today. "No one can drive me crazy..unless I allow it!" Doug and I ushered in the new year with a respiratory bug. We are still fighting it off. I am soaking in HIS presence and continuing to pray for HIS healing touch. I pray GOD continues to use you like never before as you continue to serve HIM. GOD BLESS you, sweet friend!
    Hugs, andrea

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The Attacker (5/15/09)

The sun was just peeking from the Eastern skies. Ephesians 6:12 [37 kb]


Out in the prison’s yard, some huge Sheriff’s buses were illuminated by the soft glow coming from the lights all over from the tall lamp posts. Their engines were turned on, warming up, before the buses would take the inmates to the different courts where they would have their trials.


Orange-uniformed men were lined up in pairs, joined together with handcuffs and chained, forming a long line. They already had their breakfast and had their morning medications prior to going to courts. Some were fidgeting, as they waited to board those buses.


All of a sudden, all hell broke loose! Two men were engaged in a fight, using weapons they made secretly for a while. Deputies called for help on the radio, both for custody back-up and medical staff, as well.


When the air was cleared and the other inmates were secured, one man was down on the floor. He sustained multiple gashes but two of them were deep. One cut was vertically etched from his left ear going down to the jaw line. The other dangerous cut was horizontal on his left neck, close to the jugular vein. Pool of blood dripped all over the floor. Holding his bleeding neck, he was pointing at the other inmate few feet away, being guarded by the other deputies.


The other man being accused was not hurt. There were no lacerations nor any other signs of trauma. He was obviously very agitated as he was being questioned by those deputies, while the medical staff started treating the other man on the floor. They cleaned the wounds and controlled the bleeding. That man was sent to the nearby hospital.


When the investigation was finalized, it turned out to be that the “downed man who was accusing the other inmate” was the attacker and the other one who didn’t have injury was the one attacked. The deputies found out that it was the second attempt to attack the unhurt man. Both attacks on him failed. He was well-prepared after the first attempt on him, that when the second attempt was done, he was able to defend himseld and ended up injuring his attacker severely.


[Source: Life Application Bible]:


We also have an “accuser of the brethren.” Satan and his army of demons are the enemies of God and of everything good.


“Because God’s children are human beings – made of flesh and blood – Jesus also became flesh and blood by being born in human form. For only as a human being could he die, and only by dying could he break the power of the Devil, who had the power of death.” –Hebrews 2:14


Because of what Jesus had done [dying on the cross], we, who live in constant fear of death shouldn’t be afraid anymore. Jesus had freed us from that fear so we can live for Him. When we belong to God, we know that death is only the portal that leads into “eternal life”. [“Thank You Lord!].


Paul warned us, too that we also battle against the evil forces of Satan, who is a vicious fighter. But to be able to withstand their attacks, we must depend on God’s strength and use every piece of His armor. We face an army whose goal is to defeat Christ’s church. When we believe in Christ, they become our enemies. They will try any device to turn us away from the Lord.


Fear not! For God has provided His supernatural power to defeat Satan and his army, through His Holy Spirit within us. So, arm yourselves with God’s armor.


Let us be strong in the Lord's mighty power. Let's put on His whole armor to resist the enemy's attacks: put on the sturdy belt of truth and the body armor of God's righteousness. For shoes, put on the peace that comes from the Good News, so that we are well-prepared. We will need faith in every battle as our shield to stop the fiery arrows aimed by Satan and his army. Let us put on salvation as our helmet, not forgetting the sword of the Spirit, which is the Word of God. Let's pray at all times, on every occasion in the power of the Holy Spirit. We must stay alert and be persistent in our prayers for all Christians everywhere. [Ephesians 6:10-18].

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